Feb 12, 2013 By: wpadmin
Rabbi Benjamin Blech: Does the Word "Love" Still Mean Anything?
Are you in love?
Millions of people will take advantage of Valentine鈥檚 Day to affirm their strong feeling of affection with the three words 鈥淚 love you.鈥 That statement has been called the most beautiful phrase in the English language.
Love after all supposedly signifies the strongest bond possible between two people. Love is nothing less, as the Zohar puts it, than "the secret of divine unity."
What troubles me though is that in our day, the word love seems to have lost its meaning, suffering from what I call verbal inflation.
We all know what inflation can do to money. If the government prints too much of it, that reduces the value of all the currency already in circulation. Verbal inflation is what happens when we use words that start out having considerable value for cheap imitations. Before long, million-dollar words can no longer be taken seriously. They identify every worthless item as a priceless heirloom. They allow junk to masquerade as jewels and trivia to be confused with treasure.
Stan Carey of Macmillan Dictionary publishers recently complained about how much language inflation ultimately creates devaluation in meaning. To call someone brilliant today is merely to suggest that he is somewhat clever. To proclaim a film a masterpiece is to allow that one can sit through it without too much fidgeting. Everyone with some talent is hailed as a 鈥済enius鈥 (and anyone funny becomes a 鈥渃omic genius鈥),
Carey explains, 鈥淪uch is our need to imbue our words with force and significance, that we use hyperbole to entice people to pay attention 鈥 and the hyperbolic terms gradually normalize.鈥
C.S. Lewis wisely warned against language inflation: 鈥淒on鈥檛 use words too big for the subject. Don鈥檛 say infinitely when you mean very; otherwise, you鈥檒l have no word left when you want to talk about something really infinite.鈥
is Professor of Talmud at 黑料社 All and the Rabbi Emeritus of Young Israel of Oceanside. He is the author of 12 highly acclaimed books, including Understanding Judaism: The basics of Deed and Creed, and the international best-seller . The opinions expressed above are solely those of the author and should not be attributed to 黑料社 All.